Move
Meet your body where it is, then see what it can do.
Active journeys for gay men traveling solo
Come alone.
Leave more alive.
Owa he means “come here” in Waⁿdat.
Small-group retreats where movement, meaningful travel, deep rest, and real connection give you room to become more fully yourself.
Explore the next journey ↗5 to 6 nights · Up to 10 guests
MOVE WITH PURPOSE
TRAVEL WITH PEOPLE WHO GET IT
TRAVEL WITH PEOPLE WHO GET IT
THE IDEA
More than
a getaway.
A different place can help you see yourself more clearly. Come for the movement and travel. Leave stronger, clearer, and more connected.
Discover
Step beyond the familiar and into possibility.
Restore
Make room for clarity, rest, and your own pace.
Belong
Be seen without pressure, performance, or pretense.
WHAT THIS IS
Active, soulful,
and refreshingly human.
This is not about becoming someone else. It is about creating enough space, movement, and connection to become more fully yourself.
YES TO
Movement that meets you where you are
Beautiful places and local perspectives
Honest conversation and easy laughter
Downtime without apology
LEAVE BEHIND
Body competition
Forced vulnerability
Party-tour pressure
Every-minute scheduling
WHY OWA HE
Not a crowd to disappear into.
A place to be known.
Most group trips begin at check-in. Owa He begins with a conversation. The difference is not more programming. It is how intentionally the group is formed, how much room each guest is given, and what remains after everyone goes home.
You are known before you arrive.
You apply before you book. We learn what you want from the experience, what your body needs, and what helps you feel at ease. The group is built with care, not filled by whoever clicks first.
Your pace still belongs to you.
Movement is adapted to your level, downtime is protected, and participation never requires proving anything. You are supported in stretching yourself without being asked to perform.
Connection is never manufactured.
Shared meals, small-group experiences, and thoughtful hosting make conversation easier. There are no forced disclosures, matching games, or expectations about who you should become close to.
There is somewhere to return.
Owa He is growing beyond the trip through small Table dinners and continued opportunities to reconnect. The retreat is a beginning, not a community that disappears at checkout.
THE CARE CAME FIRST
The experience
begins with trust.
“Working with Billy made the entire experience effortless. Every detail was thoughtfully handled, and the recommendations felt personal, not generic.”
“Billy anticipated needs I did not even know I had. It was the first time I truly relaxed on a trip because I trusted every detail was handled.”
“From the first conversation to the final flight home, everything felt cared for. Billy turned a good vacation into an unforgettable experience.”
MEET YOUR RETREAT LEADER
This is personal.
By design.
Owa He begins with a conversation, and Billy will be there throughout the journey. Hear why he created a retreat where gay men can arrive independently, feel cared for, and connect without pressure.
A short hello · Press play when you're readyA DAY WITH US
There's a rhythm.
Never a rush.
Enough structure to feel held. Enough freedom to make the experience your own.
Explore the full experience ↗- Wake + moveBegin with guided mobility, strength, or a sunrise trail session. Every workout includes options so you can move at the level that feels right for your body that day.
- Gather + nourishCome together for a relaxed communal breakfast featuring fresh, local ingredients. There is time for coffee, conversation, and fueling the day without rushing through the morning.
- Go somewhereExperience the destination through nature, culture, food, or time on the water. Excursions balance discovery with an approachable challenge, and physical expectations are shared clearly in advance.
- Choose your paceReturn to home base for a massage, time by the pool, journaling, a nap, a quiet walk, or no plans at all. This time is intentionally open so you can recharge in the way you need.
- Come back togetherGather for sunset, a thoughtful meal, and conversations that unfold naturally. Some evenings may include local dining, relaxed reflection, or a comfortable night together at home base.
THE NEXT JOURNEY
Somewhere warm.
Somewhere wild.
A typical retreat unfolds over five or six nights, giving the group enough time to settle in, explore the destination, and form real connections without making every day feel packed. We stay rooted in one beautiful home base, so you can unpack, get comfortable, and return to the same welcoming place each evening.
Days combine personalized fitness, memorable local excursions, shared meals, and restorative time. The setting may change, but the rhythm stays intentional: move your body, discover somewhere meaningful, slow down, and enjoy the company of a small group.
A change of place can become a threshold, where the familiar loosens and new possibilities have room to appear.
- Up to 10 guests
- All movement levels
- Private rooms
- Most meals and experiences included
2027 JOURNEYS
Palm Springs, California
A focused desert reset with arrival after 2:00 PM on January 2 and a farewell brunch before departure on January 7. Four full days combine personalized training, private guided tours of Joshua Tree, Indian Canyons, and midcentury modern architecture, mountain views, and restoration at The Spa at Séc-he.
$6,000 $4,500 per guest · Private room included
Puerto Vallarta, Mexico
A coastal retreat with personalized fitness, a locally guided food experience through Zona Romántica, Emiliano Zapata, and El Centro, private snorkeling around Los Arcos and the southern beaches, a guided jungle hike, deep restoration at Spa Imagine at Garza Blanca Preserve, and a private luxury yacht day.
$6,000 $5,500 per guest · Private room included
Lamporecchio, Italy
A slower Italian journey among Tuscan hills, olive groves, vineyards, and nearby villages. Movement and countryside exploration sit alongside local cooking, generous shared meals, cultural outings, and unhurried time at the home base to enjoy the landscape and one another.
$7,500 per guest · Private room included
Details coming soon
Montréal, Québec
A privately hosted city retreat shaped by queer Montréal, architecture and design, a guided countryside escape, a restorative floating-spa day, exceptional meals, and time to experience the city at a more personal pace.
$6,500 per guest · Private room included
See retreat details ↗Ogunquit + Southern Maine
An elevated coastal retreat connecting Ogunquit, Portland, and Kennebunkport through a private whale-watching experience, sailing and dining, local art and food, guided shoreline experiences, and a full restoration day overlooking the Atlantic.
$7,000 per guest · Private room included
See retreat details ↗Sydney, Australia
A warm-weather journey pairing harbour life, coastal walks, a private sunset cruise, the Blue Mountains and an Australian wildlife sanctuary with movement, restoration, and the unmistakable energy of Sydney.
$9,000 per guest · Private room included
Details coming soon
Solo is how
you arrive.
Connected is how
you leave.
TRAVELING SOLO ≠ BEING SINGLE
This experience is created for men who want to step into something independently, even if traveling alone feels unfamiliar. You may be single, partnered, divorced, widowed, a seasoned traveler, or preparing for your first passport stamp. What matters most is arriving with curiosity, kindness, and a willingness to be part of the experience.
From the first shared meal, the retreat is designed to make connection feel natural. Connection is built through presence, not pressure. There will be opportunities to move, explore, laugh, and have meaningful conversations without forced vulnerability or a need to perform. There is also room for quiet, reflection, and time on your own. You arrive independently, but you are never expected to navigate the experience alone.
10 pagesTAKE A CLOSER LOOK
The Owa He
digital guide.
Meet the idea behind Owa He, explore the rhythm of a retreat, see what is included, and get a closer look at the Palm Springs experience.
A thoughtful introduction for anyone wondering whether this kind of journey might be right for them.
Download the guide ↓GOOD QUESTIONS
The things
you're wondering.
01Who are the retreats for?+
These retreats are created for adult gay men who want an active, restorative way to travel in a small group. You may be single or partnered, an experienced traveler or taking your first independent trip. The most important qualities are curiosity, kindness, and a willingness to participate while respecting your own pace and the experience of others.
02Do I need to be single?+
No. Solo means you arrive independently. You may be single, partnered, divorced, widowed, or simply ready to travel on your own. The experience is designed so no one has to arrive with a friend or partner to feel included.
03Can I bring my partner or a friend?+
Yes. Partners and friends are welcome to attend the same retreat, but each person completes the application process individually. That helps us understand everyone joining the group and protect the small-group dynamic.
04Where do the retreats happen?+
Current and planned destinations include Palm Springs, Puerto Vallarta, Tuscany, Montréal, Southern Maine, and Sydney. Each location is selected for its combination of natural beauty, opportunities for movement, local culture, comfortable accommodations, and space to slow down.
05How long are the retreats?+
Retreats will typically last five or six nights. That gives the group time to settle in, experience the destination, and form natural connections without making the schedule feel crowded. The Palm Springs retreat is five nights, from January 2 to 7, 2027.
06What is included?+
Every retreat includes accommodations, personal training and daily guided movement, planned group excursions, daily coffee and tea, and transportation connected to the scheduled itinerary. Palm Springs includes a private room, private guided tours of Joshua Tree, Indian Canyons, and midcentury modern architecture, plus a restorative experience at The Spa at Séc-he. The package also includes dinner on arrival day, breakfast, lunch, and dinner on all four full retreat days, and a farewell brunch on departure day. Transportation to and from Palm Springs is not included. Personal purchases, independent activities, optional treatments beyond the planned spa experience, and excursions outside the itinerary are at each guest’s expense.
07Are meals included?+
Yes. For the Palm Springs retreat, dinner is included on arrival day. Breakfast, lunch, and dinner are provided on all four full days, along with daily coffee and tea. A farewell brunch is served before departure on January 7. Shared meals will emphasize fresh local food and relaxed dining. We will collect dietary needs before travel and explain what can be accommodated.
08Are flights included?+
No. You will arrange and pay for your own airfare and transportation to and from Palm Springs. We will provide clear arrival guidance and ask guests to arrive after 2:00 PM on January 2. Transportation connected to the planned retreat itinerary is included once the experience begins.
09How fit do I need to be?+
You do not need to train or look a certain way. Daily fitness is adapted to your personal level, with options for intensity, pace, and movement. Some excursions will require moderate physical ability, including walking on uneven ground and hiking for reasonable distances. We will share clear activity expectations before booking and discuss any limitations during your virtual conversation.
10Is this a dating or party trip?+
No. This is not designed as a dating event, singles trip, or party weekend. It is an active, restorative travel experience built around wellbeing, exploration, and genuine community. Natural connections may form, but there is no pressure or expectation.
11Will I have any time alone?+
Absolutely. Each day balances shared activities with unstructured time. You can rest by the pool, nap, journal, explore on your own, or opt out when you need space. We encourage participation while respecting that restoration looks different for everyone.
12What will a retreat cost?+
Palm Springs is currently $4,500 per guest, reduced from $6,000. Puerto Vallarta is currently $5,500 per guest, reduced from $6,000. Montréal is $6,500 per guest, Southern Maine is $7,000 per guest, Italy is $7,500 per guest, and Sydney is planned at $9,000 per guest. These prices include a private room, and a $500 deposit is applied toward the total. Airfare, transportation to and from the destination, personal purchases, independent activities, and identified exclusions are separate.
13What kind of room will I have?+
The listed Palm Springs and Puerto Vallarta retreat prices include your own private bedroom, giving you personal space to rest and recharge between shared experiences. Specific room details are confirmed in the retreat booking agreement.
14Will there be a payment plan?+
Yes. A $500 deposit secures an accepted guest’s place and is applied toward the total retreat price. Guests may pay the remaining balance all at once or follow the payment schedule provided in the retreat-specific booking agreement.
15Is there a referral program?+
Yes. Refer three men who each pay for and complete an Owa He retreat, and you will earn one complimentary future retreat, subject to availability. Airfare, travel to and from the destination, personal expenses, independent activities, optional treatments, and outside excursions are not included. The complimentary retreat is nontransferable. To receive credit, your name must be entered as the referrer on each guest’s application. That application entry becomes the official referral record.
16How do I lock in my spot?+
Start by submitting the short application form. We will send you a survey, meet virtually to discuss the experience, and answer your questions. If the retreat feels right for both of us, you can choose your destination and secure your place with the required deposit.
COME WITH US
Apply today.
Start the conversation.
Sometimes the next chapter begins with one honest choice. Get your name on the list by sharing a few details. Applying does not commit you to the retreat. It simply begins the conversation.
Why do I need to apply?
Owa He retreats are intentionally small, so the experience depends on bringing together a group that feels comfortable, respectful, and open to connection.
The application begins a two-way conversation. It gives us a chance to learn what you are looking for, answer your questions, and share the details you need to decide whether the retreat feels right for you. It also helps us understand whether you will be a good fit for the group we are thoughtfully building.
This is not an audition, and applying does not commit you to booking. It is simply the first step toward making sure the experience feels right for you and for everyone sharing it.
- 01Submit your information
Tell us how to reach you and what draws you to the experience.
- 02Complete a short survey
We'll email a few thoughtful questions so we can learn more about you.
- 03Meet virtually
We'll discuss the retreat, expectations, and any questions you have.
- 04Decide and book
Choose your destination and secure your spot.
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